How to Help Your Child Emotionally Prepare for Their First Riding Camp

Horse camp can be a huge adventure for a kid — and just as big of a moment for the parent dropping them off. There’s the thrill of being around horses all day, sure. But also, for a lot of kids, it’s the first time they’ve spent full days (or even nights) away from home, surrounded by new faces, new routines, and, well... big animals.

So, yeah — it’s totally normal for there to be some nerves. But don’t worry. With a little emotional prep, you can help your child walk into camp feeling confident, calm, and excited for what’s ahead.

  1. Start by Talking It

Don’t just say, “You’re going to horse camp!” and move on. Talk it out. What will the days look like? Who’s going to be there? What kinds of things will they do? Will they be brushing horses? Riding every day? What happens if they’re nervous or unsure?

If the camp has photos online or a sample schedule, show it to them. When things feel familiar ahead of time, it takes the pressure off the unknown.

2. Remind Them It’s Okay to Feel Nervous

Seriously. This one’s important. Kids often think they have to be all-in, brave, and excited — and if they’re not, something’s wrong. That’s not true.

Let them know it’s totally okay to feel nervous. Everyone does when trying something new. Even you. Share a story if you’ve got one. Maybe the first time you tried something and ended up loving it — after being terrified.

3. Give Them a Little More Independence Ahead of Time

If camp is their first time being away from home, let them “practice” independence beforehand in small ways. Have them help pack their stuff. Let them be in charge of brushing their hair or setting out their clothes the night before.

Little wins like that add up and send the message: you’ve got this.

4. Let the Camp Know Who Your Kid Is

This one’s overlooked, but honestly? It’s big. Some kids are social butterflies. Some are quiet observers. Others take a while to warm up. If your kid is more introverted, or even just a little shy in new settings, tell the counselors.

Even just a quick email or a note on the first day can make a difference. It helps the staff keep an eye out — maybe they’ll help your child find a buddy early on or include them more intentionally in group stuff.

Same goes for the outgoing kids — sometimes they do great in leadership-type roles or mentoring newer riders.

Bottom line: the more camp staff knows ahead of time, the better they can support your kid.

5. Practice a Few Coping Tools

If your child gets anxious or overwhelmed, give them a couple of tools they can use on their own. It doesn’t need to be a big deal. Teach them simple breathing techniques. Or a grounding game like “name 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch,” etc.

Even just knowing they have something to try if emotions hit — that can be reassuring.

6. Visit the Camp (If That’s an Option)

If the barn or camp location allows visits beforehand, take them. Even a 10-minute walk around the property or meeting a horse or two can turn something scary into something familiar.

7. Don’t Stress the Riding Part

Your child doesn’t need to be perfect. In fact, they don’t even need to be good. This isn’t a competition. It’s a chance to learn something new, have fun, and grow.

Remind them of that. Camp is about showing up, trying, and enjoying the experience — even if they’re nervous. Especially if they’re nervous.

Wrapping It Up

The gear will come together. The boots will fit (mostly). But helping your child feel emotionally ready? That’s what really sets the tone for a great first camp experience.

So talk it out, prep some simple tools, and let the camp staff know a little about who your child is. They don’t need to be fearless — just supported. And with your help, they will be.

Confidence is learned in the saddle. Let’s help your child grow — not just as a rider, but as a leader. Sign up today and take the first step.